Ways To Set Monogamy On Fire
One of the problems that people face over the course of a long term relationship is the initial spark fades. The initial passion that had the both of you making out on every surface in the house starts to wane off. Lack of passion is one of the greatest killers of a relationship since it is associated with being bored. Below are ways you can set your monogamous relationship on fire.
You need to keep the thrills. One of the mistakes that a lot of couples make is that they put a lot of emphasis on romance and date nights while trying to remind themselves how it was like when things were still fresh. While this will remind you of those treasured moments, it is not what should bring the spark back into the relationship. You need to do things that get your heart racing and kick your adrenal glands into overdrive.
One of the things that make long term monogamy hard is that our bodies work against its best intentions with time and as a result, one does not get any more rush. That is why sex during the first stages of the relationship is usually a firestorm of excitements which culminates into mind blowing orgasms. With time, you become more familiar with each other and start to get bored. This can be tackled by introducing new aspects into your sex life. Try and watch porn that interests both of you and do things differently in bed. If you have always been trying out missionary style, it is time to change to something else. Another idea is to go to a strip club together or any other place where you can flirt and set you in the mood and before you know it, you will be heading home with your loved one and ready to tear each other’s clothes off.
You need to challenge yourself. Part of the excitement of a new relationship is getting to know each other. There is always an interesting lawyer to uncover when you start dating. Part of a long term relationship is that over time, you will have gotten to know your loved one on a deep level. As a result, it will feel as though there is nothing new for you to learn. This is something that needs to be addressed if you want to maintain the fire in your monogamous relationship.